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Hakomi Couple’s Workshop on Salt Spring Island, August 2020

14-17 August, 2020. Facilitated by Marcia Burton and Bob Milone

Cultivating Connection, Communication, Compassion: Taking Time for Renewal in Relationship

“The simple act of being completely present for another person is truly an act of love.”

Sharon Salzberg

“For one human being to love another; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks,…..the work for which all other work is but preparation.”

Maria Ranier Rilke

Join Bob and Marcia for a long weekend with an opportunity to renew, recharge and celebrate your relationship. We will use a simple mindfulness-based/compassion-centered approach, working mainly in couples and sometimes in small groups to support deeper connection, communication and compassion.

You can expect to experience connection with your partner, to have fun, to feel nourished, inspired, and encouraged.

We will focus on:

  • Compassion:

Develop a practice of appreciation for each other

Experience receiving and giving emotional support/nourishment

  • Communication:

Learn simple skills for hearing and being heard by your partner

Cultivate a deeper understanding of what is important to each of you

  • Connection:

Identify and drop pain-causing patterns

Develop supportive, nourishing patterns

The Results We’re Looking For: feeling more at ease, more together, appreciated, supported, met, understood, and able to be more lovingly authentic, and open to the gift of each other.

Although primarily designed for couples in an intimate relationship, please note this workshop is open to any two people in significant relationship, as an opportunity to deepen connection, i.e. mother/daughter, co-workers, brothers, etc.

Schedule:

The schedule offers free time with your partner to help you to enjoy a slower pace, to support the integration of the course material, and to simply have some fun together.

  • Fri Aug 14 1pm – 4pm
  • Sat  Aug 15      10am – 1pm and 3 – 6pm
  • Sun  Aug 16     10am – 1pm and 3 – 6pm
  • Mon  Aug 17    9am – 12pm

Bob Milone and Marcia Burton have been teaching mindfulness-based trainings, to help others to build compassion and self-awareness in relationships, for many years.  They are both Senior trainers of the Hakomi Method of Assisted Self-Discovery, and Bob is one of Ron Kurtz’s Legacy Holders.  Marcia is a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and is a Certified Teacher of Mindful Self-Compassion.

Most importantly, Marcia and Bob have been practicing using mindfulness-based approaches to navigate their own 14-year relationship and have a lot of experience getting lost and finding their way back to each other!  Their style is light-hearted, down-to-earth, warm and compassionate.

Cost:  $495 (GST included)  per couple (non-residential)

Registration:  Please send full payment via e-transfer to Rebecca at: abecca2011@gmail.com, to attend the workshop.

Info about accommodation and what to do on Salt Spring:
http://www.saltspringtourism.com

Embodying Hakomi as a Way of Life

We hope you can join us for this 4-day online Hakomi workshop, in conjunction with the Hong Kong Hakomi Education Network. Marcia Burton, senior Hakomi trainer, will be teaching a 4-day online Hakomi workshop with Bob Milone, senior Hakomi trainer and legacy holder, in conjunction with the Hong Kong Hakomi Education Network.

Hakomi, created by Ron Kurtz, is an experiential method of bodymind psychotherapy based on using embodied mindfulness for assisted self study. It is designed to help heal old emotional wounds that live on in the form of life limiting beliefs about oneself and about the world. These beliefs, often unconscious, can shape both our perception and our experience. By bringing into awareness the internal beliefs about how we live and how we relate to others, it is possible to make changes in the direction of healthier living and happier relationships. 

At the heart of the Hakomi, is the openhearted, compassionate, spacious state of mind Ron Kurtz called ‘Loving Presence’. It is in the Loving Presence, a healing therapeutic relationship develops. This training would focus on using Hakomi Method to cultivate those personhood qualities and skills that can help anyone be a healing presence for another. 

This multi-level workshop is a unique opportunity for newcomers to the method and experienced practitioners and students alike to work with two senior trainers, Marcia and Bob. 

Dates: these dates and times are for Pacific Time

  • Friday, 13 August, 6:30pm-9:30pm
  • Saturday, 14 August, 6:30pm-9:30pm
  • Friday 20 August, 6:30pm-9:30pm
  • Saturday 21 August, 6:30pm-9:30pm

(14,15 August and 21,22 August from 9:30am-12:30pm in Asia)

Cost:

HKD$1,560 / (Roughly $250 Canadian)

For details and registration, please contact Chau Chun Yam at: cychau82@gmail.com