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Hakomi Couple’s Workshop on Salt Spring Island, August 2020

14-17 August, 2020. Facilitated by Marcia Burton and Bob Milone

Cultivating Connection, Communication, Compassion: Taking Time for Renewal in Relationship

“The simple act of being completely present for another person is truly an act of love.”

Sharon Salzberg

“For one human being to love another; that is perhaps the most difficult of all our tasks,…..the work for which all other work is but preparation.”

Maria Ranier Rilke

Join Bob and Marcia for a long weekend with an opportunity to renew, recharge and celebrate your relationship. We will use a simple mindfulness-based/compassion-centered approach, working mainly in couples and sometimes in small groups to support deeper connection, communication and compassion.

You can expect to experience connection with your partner, to have fun, to feel nourished, inspired, and encouraged.

We will focus on:

  • Compassion:

Develop a practice of appreciation for each other

Experience receiving and giving emotional support/nourishment

  • Communication:

Learn simple skills for hearing and being heard by your partner

Cultivate a deeper understanding of what is important to each of you

  • Connection:

Identify and drop pain-causing patterns

Develop supportive, nourishing patterns

The Results We’re Looking For: feeling more at ease, more together, appreciated, supported, met, understood, and able to be more lovingly authentic, and open to the gift of each other.

Although primarily designed for couples in an intimate relationship, please note this workshop is open to any two people in significant relationship, as an opportunity to deepen connection, i.e. mother/daughter, co-workers, brothers, etc.

Schedule:

The schedule offers free time with your partner to help you to enjoy a slower pace, to support the integration of the course material, and to simply have some fun together.

  • Fri Aug 14 1pm – 4pm
  • Sat  Aug 15      10am – 1pm and 3 – 6pm
  • Sun  Aug 16     10am – 1pm and 3 – 6pm
  • Mon  Aug 17    9am – 12pm

Bob Milone and Marcia Burton have been teaching mindfulness-based trainings, to help others to build compassion and self-awareness in relationships, for many years.  They are both Senior trainers of the Hakomi Method of Assisted Self-Discovery, and Bob is one of Ron Kurtz’s Legacy Holders.  Marcia is a Registered Clinical Counsellor (RCC) and is a Certified Teacher of Mindful Self-Compassion.

Most importantly, Marcia and Bob have been practicing using mindfulness-based approaches to navigate their own 14-year relationship and have a lot of experience getting lost and finding their way back to each other!  Their style is light-hearted, down-to-earth, warm and compassionate.

Cost:  $495 (GST included)  per couple (non-residential)

Registration:  Please send full payment via e-transfer to Rebecca at: abecca2011@gmail.com, to attend the workshop.

Info about accommodation and what to do on Salt Spring:
http://www.saltspringtourism.com

Last Chance! 2 Places Left for the MSC Day-Long Silent Retreat

Saturday, the 6th of December 2025

In-person (at Marcia’s home on Salt Spring Island) + online from 10am to 4:30pm

We invite you to take some time out from your usual routine, during the holiday season, to slow down and to connect more deeply (or to reconnect!) with yourself. This retreat will take place primarily in silence, except for some guided meditations and occasional instructions. Together, we will support each other to engage with a sense of ease, to relax and to be gentle with ourselves and each other. 

A simple vegan lunch will be available for everyone, and you are also welcome to bring your own ready-made lunch, or something to share, if you prefer.

*If you are new to meditation and are unsure whether this would be a good fit for you, please check in with Marcia. We want to feel confident that you will feel comfortable in this environment.

For those who cannot commit to a whole day, the option is available to attend the first half-day of the retreat (10:00 am-1:00pm). However, in order to maintain a strong container, it will not be possible to attend the second half-day, (1:00pm – 4:30pm).

Registration and Donations:

Please email Marcia to register: marciaburton369@gmail.com

Registration is required, by the 5th of December.

Donations, of any amount, are offered in the spirit of generosity and reciprocity. 50% of the donations for this retreat will be given to support research on the critically endangered orca pods local to southern BC and northern Washington:  https://www.whaleresearch.com